10.05.2012

Peanut Gallary #2

Friday.  Oh how I long to meet you every week.  I am not thinking in complete sentences today.  Therefore here are few things that have inspired me, intrigued me, guided me, and hit me right on the head this week!!


Reminds me of my mom and her undying love for The Beatles and her unending wisdom...


This speaks for itself and could not be more accurate.... 


my front porch and my first mums of the season, which make me so very happy....





Hope everyone has a wonderful weekend!! Get out and do something crazy!!!!

Xoxo,
KWS

10.03.2012

30 BEFORE 30

Big shoutout to Hollywood, as well as Jack Nicholson and Morgan Freeman for the 2007 acclaimed Bucket List.... now by most standards this movie was not exactly a box office instant classic..... however it did help spawn the great idea that anyone and everyone should indeed have a "Bucket List"!

For those of you who do not have a bucket list, I encourage you to sit down and start one.  Today.  Like right now.  Seriously, grab your ipad, pen/paper, phone and get started on your list.  I have one.  It grows every year.... I try to mark a few things off each year and add a few things.... some things are more than doable, i.e., seeing the grand canyon, while others may take a while (and a chunk of change) for me to accomplish.... i.e., African Safari... and if I get published in National Geographic that won't hurt either!  My bucket list is a lifelong journey, it may take me a while to accomplish such a list, and it is my hope that I never stop adding to it, so I have come up with a new challenge for myself, one with a more pressing deadline if you will.... my 30 Before 30 List!!!!!!

Now, don't get too excited... I only have two items so far.  That is where you come in.  I need some help.  I have exactly 18 days to finalize the list and then exactly 15 months to get it accomplished.  Yes, this idea did come about after a few glasses of wine (I find I have my best ideas after a few glasses), but since I am not married, I have no kids, and I don't have 15 weddings to attend next year......I decided this is the time!!!   So without further ado, I give you the list so far:

30 BEFORE 30

1. Go to 3 european countries I have never been.
2. Go sky diving.
3-30. ??????????



That's all I got so far.... if I get to mark a few things off my "real" bucket list in the process that is great too... so, here goes nothing!!!  Can't wait to hear your suggestions!!

xoxo,
KWS

10.02.2012

Communication 101

I was in an interview a few weeks ago for a potential new job.  I was speaking with my 4th interviewer of the day and we were about 20 mins into conversation, when she looks up at me and says rather bluntly, "you sure have an odd path, and I don't know how you ended up here...."

Up until this point I thought things were going VERY well, but I didn't know how to react to her statement.  It was NOT a question, and not being one to hide my emotions very well, I am sure she could see the look of shock right across my face.  Now, I will be the first to tell you that my path is by no means straight.... I have had some extremely interesting jobs.... but it is MY path, it has not been boring, and I am quite proud of it.  She didn't even give me an opportunity to explain it, it was pure judgement of my journey and how I have arrived at where I am today. 

Last Friday I was at a conference my work was sponsoring, it was called, "Communication Conundrum".  Not surprisingly it was about how we communicate and how we can do it better.  The one rule that the keynote speaker kept coming back to was listening.  I thought back to my interview and how she never even wanted to listen to my story.  It was frustrating that she was very quick to tell me her opinion and not give me the opportunity to explain. 

I am not always the best communicator... and I am often the one telling the story (typically a long-winded one with lots of details, a trait I inherited from my dad), so often I forget that I need to stop and simply listen.

And I would like to give a very, very big THANK YOU to all of you in my life who repeatedly listen to my long-winded, crazy, detailed stories and supported by very curvy path!

xoxo,
KWS

9.04.2012

Peanut Gallery #1

Long day = short post. 

Saw two quotes today, and they made me think (as all good quotes should).  You see, I have had alot, a ton, a tremendous amount of change over the past year... a story that we will get to, don't worry.  I am not quite ready to put it out in the universe, but I am getting closer.... regardless these made me reflect on all that has happened, and despite all the bad in the past, give thanks for the wonderful and happy place I am in today... so without further ado,  here they are....

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Happy Tuesday... and for my dear friend, Meggie....Good Evening!

xoxo,
KWS

9.03.2012

Fall is Upon Us

Lately I have been consumed with all things FALL!! I usually don't look forward to fall, but for some reason, this year I welcome it with open arms. Maybe its the nerd in me, who always enjoyed that "back to school" time or the cheerleader in me that loves nothing more than the roar of a crowd coming from a football field on friday night and whistles on the practice field on weekday afternoons. So, in honor of this being the first full weekend of football and the retiring of all things "white" until next spring.... I thought I would pull one of the old blogs out of retirement..... enjoy!

xoxo, KWS


Just like any other day I rose early to take my shower, get dressed, and head off to work. As I stepped out onto my porch I noticed the air had changed. School had been in session for several weeks bringing the thoughts of fall to come, but this morning I could smell fall in the air. It wasn't such a pain as it often is in the summer to wake up on a beautiful sunny day and cope with having to go to work while everyone else is laying on the beach. I knew that everywhere around me there were students preparing for class, parents preparing for the workday, and a recent grad longing for the weekend to approach due to the game day rivalry on a football field close by. As I took a deep breath I was consumed with the smell of fall.

When you grow up in the south you learn to appreciate that smell. Its different for everyone, it might be the smell of an old book you were assigned to read in class, or driving down a back road and tobacco burning in the barn, or the smell of a backyard bar-b-que, testing out the recipe for saturdays game, or the crisp morning air as the dew lifts from the grass, whatever it may be, for most it brings a smile to their face as a million memories rush into your brain. Its a precious time, right after summer, which you swear tops all summers you have had in the past, and right before winter and the quickly approaching, time consuming holiday season. You feel determined. You pack your schedule full of road trips and short flights to your favorite cities to catch up with old friends, catch a game, and take advantage of the back-to-school sales. You welcome the evenings when you can sit on the back porch, in your favorite sweatshirt you just recently pulled out of storage with a glass of wine and enjoy the cool, quiet evening without the interference of those summertime bugs. You remember your first hay ride, your high school crush, your first college tailgate... fall is a time for first, and an awakening to the fact that the year-end is quickly approaching so squeeze it all in, before the new year is here. Tonight when you go bed, turn off the air, raise the windows, and let that fall air seep into the room.

Curl up, take a deep breath, and let those fall memories rise to meet you.

8.27.2012

The beginning

I know, I know... I said I was getting started, and then nothing....

But I promise its not because I didn't want to start, its only because I couldn't decide where to begin, and after a convo with one of my wise-beyond-her-years friends who told me to "start today... start where you are today" I just decided to just sit down and start writing.

So here is where I am today.... it's Monday afternoon... my mind is anywhere but work and all I can think about is how many hours until I can go to sleep and how many days until the three day weekend that awaits me upon Friday.... answers respectively are about 6 and 4.  Better than where I started when I got up this morning!  I am still recovering from a wonderful weekend in Louisville and Cincy where I got some much needed time in with my best friends and we managed to throw our Pretty Amy a HUGE SURPRISE 30th birthday party.  I am not sure how you people do it, but when my friends decide to throw a party no detail is spared.... the hardest part was really keeping everything a secret.... a feat I had no idea any of us were truly capable of, but someone how we all managed to get there on time and pull it off, and some of us even managed to throw in a little day drinking at the pool party our hotel was having..... swing dancers included.  Another story for another day!  You know its a good weekend when you are unpacking to find spare glow sticks and cheap sunglasses amongst all your clothes.  I am the absolute worst at saying goodbye to all my friends after such events as these.... luckily yesterday wasn't so bad, seeing that in just 11 short days one of the 8, and youngest of the crew, Julie (JKR, for a little while longer) ties the knot in Chicago so we can all be reunited once again.

So that is where I am today.  I hope your weekends were filled with fabulous friends, maybe a few dranks, and a whole lotta fun.... and I really hope your Monday hasn't been too mean to you!

Will write.... again soon.... maybe tomorrow! ;)

xoxo,
Kate